In case you haven't been to a wedding lately, the landscape has completely changed.  With the advent of Martha Stewart hitting the scene 20 ish years ago, weddings have gone from cake and punch to a fortnight of events and just about anything goes.  As mentioned in the previous post, I do research blogs and I have come across another one via a bride that just booked us for her December nuptuals.   GreenWeddingShoes  This is a great resource for inspiration and vendors and plain ole dilly dally time looking at beautiful stuff.  I think I am going to have to incorporate a blogroll here.